To all the men out there who are playing with women’s emotions can you please just stop? Please. Just stop for a minute and think about the consequences. Not your consequences, the woman, the other person who has a heart and soul. Can you stop and think how would it feel if this were done to you?
I know there are genuinely good guys out there but I am yet to find one. I am yet to find someone who doesn’t think its acceptable to lead a woman on. Let a woman bring down those barriers she had set up because of arseholes like you in the past, let her bring them down to let you in so you can crush her just that little bit harder. Someone who won’t promise her the world and say you are different, not a player, ready to settle down with a woman like her. Someone who can make her feel so special one day, then the next it’s like she don’t even exist.
And by text?! I am mean how old are you? Are you really a man if you don’t even have the guts to say to a woman face to face or even on the phone that you just don’t think its going to work. Text is the easy way out, and that is a reflection of just how much of an immature and inconsiderate human being you are.
I am fed of crying over men who don’t deserve me. I am fed up of trusting someone for it to be broken. I am fed of men thinking its ok to stomp over a woman’s feelings without a care in the world.
I used to think it was me. But its not. Its not me, well it is in the sense that I seem to pick the arseholes it is but other than that its you. I know my worth, and maybe I’m to over qualified in sense as I do know exactly what I want from life and in a relationship, but its you. You are the one with the issues (commitment, trust, blatant arsehole disorder whatever), you don’t know what was right in front of you. And do you know what – its your loss.
To all the women out there who have been screwed over or are being screwed over and just don’t want to admit it. Start realizing your worth. Fairy tales don’t always have happy endings, but you can choose to write your own one that does. Hold your head up high and believe in yourself. And tell that arsehole that’s in your head to do one. You are worth so much more
Men, please. Please just stop doing this to us females. Please stop using our feelings as a tool to make yourself feel better.
The Thinking Mummy 